Faith
Are you presently walking with the Lord--listening to Him
and willing to make all necessary changes for Him? Do you
have a mutually full love for your prospective sex
partner and a respect to serve God as one flesh? If you
can't answer "YES" to the above, please refrain
from having sex and pray to God to help you in finding
(or not attempting to find) a mate and staying chaste and
single until He gives you better insight.